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Ashlyn Marya Coile
October 6, 1995 ~ August 10, 2023 (age 27) 27 Years Old
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It is with heavy hearts that we announce the untimely passing of our beautiful and
precious daughter Ashlyn Marya Coile. She was called home on August 10th, 2023, at
the young age of 27. Though her time with us was far too brief, Ashlyn will live on in the
hearts of those who were fortunate enough to have crossed paths with her. She was the
daughter of Hilary Coile Conley and Gabriel Gonzales. She was also the mother to two
beautiful children Emmalyn Claire Coile-Lopez age 11 as well as Zayden Gabriel Coile
age 11 months; leaving behind a void that can never be filled.
In addition to being a devoted mother she was also a daughter, sister, grandchild, niece,
cousin, friend and loved by many.
She is proceeded in death by her great grandparents Ricardo & Connie Estante,
Antonio & Mary Gonzales , Bob & Eileen Zorb, and great uncle Dave Gonzales.
She is survived by her children Emmalyn and Zayden, her father Gabriel Gonzales
stepmother Elizabeth Gomes, mother Hilary Coile Conley and stepfather Wes Conley.
She was the big sister to her siblings Olive Conley, Matthew, Tyler and Nathaniel
Gonzales, step sister to Dylan Ormonde, Percaious Serna, Danielle Ramos and aunt to
her niece D’vorah Ormonde. She is also survived by her grandparents Dayle Rodriguez,
Danny Coile, Roberta Gonzales, and Nate Gonzales.
Her Uncle Aaron and Aunt Jennifer Dedios-Coile along with their children Dominic,
Aariah, Aarabella and Lorenzo Coile.
Her Aunt Natalie Gonzales, great grandparent Colleen Regan, great aunts and great
In this time of mourning, let us come together to celebrate the life of Ashlyn. Services
will be held on Tuesday August 22, 2023 at Zapata funeral home (445 N American St.
Stockton, CA 95202) for viewing only from 11 am - 3 pm. We then invite all who knew
her to join us in commemorating her and being able to share your memories in a
celebration of life to follow from 3pm to 7pm at Oak Grove Park Boathouse (4520 W
Eight Mile Rd Stockton, CA 95209)
May we find solace in knowing that she has found eternal peace, watching over her
children and guiding them from above.
Rest in peace, dear Ashlyn. Until we meet again your light will forever shine in our
hearts and in your children. We loved you so much!
In lieu of flowers, please consider a contribution to the investment accounts of both
Emmalyn and Zayden Coile. Please make checks out to “College America”.